I spent most of the primary season hoping that Hillary would overcome the odds and become the Democratic nominee. I feel that Hillary has a great deal of political competence, I like her health care plan better than Obama’s (still do), and I just felt that overall she would be able to get more done.
I also like most of what I know about Bill’s presidency and she probably benefitted from some transference there. Add that to my tepid approval of Obama, my belief that women are more discriminated against these days than African-Americans and that puts me firmly in the Hillary camp.
When Hillary finally conceded I was fairly disappointed. I still viewed Obama as the more appropriate choice between the two final candidates, but I was still only tacitly on board. I kept hearing Obama’s supporters raving about Obama’s ability to inspire, and that just wasn’t doing it for me. I wanted a hard-nosed fighter that could get the work done.
That all changed Tuesday night. I still hold Hillary in high regard and think she would have make a great president. Finally, two speeches changed my mind. What is interesting to me is that it took both to do the trick. I was finally inspired, by both John McCain and Barack Obama.
Their conciliatory messages that emphasized the importance of banding together to overcome the herculean challenges that we now face made me want to be less partisan, roll up my sleeves, and work with my fellow Americans. Maybe Americans can be one and rebuild the great city on the hill. Yes we can, or at least I HOPE we can.
We will see in the years to come if we have lived too long in fear of each other’s motives, or if we can purge the poison that has been poured in our ears for decades. Robert Kennedy spoke the following words:
“When you teach a man to hate and fear his brother, when you teach that he is a lesser man because of his color or his beliefs or the policies he pursues, when you teach that those who differ from you threaten your freedom or your job or your family, then you also learn to confront others not as fellow citizens but as enemies, to be met not with cooperation but with conquest; to be subjugated and mastered.
“We learn, at the last, to look at our brothers as aliens, men with whom we share a city, but not a community; men bound to us in common dwelling, but not in common effort. We learn to share only a common fear, only a common desire to retreat from each other, only a common impulse to meet disagreement with force.”
If you are like I was, and still see these as lovely but empty, then please consider that they are only empty if we let them be. If we look at each other and see a bigot or a lack of faith, then these words are indeed empty, but it is our fault.
Summer
9 years ago
15 comments:
wow. could i maybe have some of your kool-aid? good stuff, b-hal. thank you for posting.
seriously awesome speech (AND POST). i can't add a thing, so i won't try. welcome to your blog!
ps - would your concern about discrimination against women have influenced your vote as much as other issues? i.e., causing you to vote for hillary simply because she was a woman? i don't think that's what you meant, but just wondering what your thoughts are on voting to make a statement.
thanks, B. thanks for saying the things i was looking to say but would not have done it nearly as compassinately.
i love yer guts. and for the first time in my relatively short number of years, i love this country. i am proud of it and excited for what i feel it will become.
Nice, Bri.
Not to threadjack, but --
THREADJACK!
Do you think that RFK's words have any relevance to the Prop 8 situation?
Feel free not to answer if you prefer.
whoa, was that lauren or michelle obama? attack, attack!
;-)
Good to hear from you b-hal. You're waxing eloquent these days--
and I mean that as a compliment. How are you guys?
This blog is the only place I call my brothers and sisters by fake names. Funny.
SC - I didn't really consider voting for her because she was a woman. I like her ability and her policy. The fact that she was a woman was just icing on the cake. (A brilliant tough minded politician who can also break the glass ceiling.) But if I had to decide between two candidates based solely on race and gender, I would vote for the woman. Yes.
RD - Yes, I think so. As I may have mentioned before, I am still somewhat on the fence on this one. Ouch, this chain link is poky on the tush. I am struggling between the connections I have always had between my faith and the church and my faith that treating people equally is also a religious virtue.
Lola Fallana - I love your guts too. Don't forget that there are a million other reasons to love this country and what it stands for (Obama listed many in his speech). Not to mention that most of the people you consider great and wonderful are Americans. These last years do make it hard to remember all the good stuff, but we gotta try.
Neesh - Thanks! We are doin all right. Pretty excited to be done with school and excited to know where we will be spending the next 2-4 years. I am taking a class from Dean Hernandez and I have been anxious to talk to Fred about some of the things we have discussed in class. Maybe I should call you all some time eh?
Annie - Thanks you for posting, I have been a serious blog stalker lately. I rarely comment though since others usually say what I have to say as well.
Plus I am lazy. I drink to much Kool-Aid, maybe I should switch to Gator-aid, or Brawndo. It can make you win at posting and commenting too.
*too much...
B-hal--Dinner, Sunday November 23, 5:00 p.m. Our place. You + 2. Will you guys be in town? It's been too long.
P.S. I went and started an inane blog. What, with the election over and all. If you're as bored as I am, you can check it out at dointhelaundry.blogspot.com But try not to dis me because there's nothing on it and there isn't likely to ever be anything on it. But, you know. I have time on my hands tonight.
My word verification word for this comment is "sorri." I think it means something. In code. Like loser or something.
Good job, beano. I can't remember if you hate that name or not. If you do, sorry. Truly enjoyed your post though.
b-hal, i've been a bit obsessive in my blog stalking lately. i thought the end of the election might temper it a bit...but no.
ps, did you know that alex used to call me beano, too? i think it came from bean burritos and manda calling them beanorinos. one day he just said, i'm going to call you beano. and he did. didn't stick like it did to you, tho. :)
Across this line, you DO NOT... Also, dudes, "beano" is not the preferred nomenclature. "Beno," please.
oh so sorry. i is not a good spellr.
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